‘I’ve lost my boy, the boy I absolutely adored’ – Mum’s heartbreaking tribute to teen who died in car crash alongside three friends
A heartbroken mum has paid tribute to her ‘adored’ son who died in a car crash alongside three friends in Wales. Harvey Owen, 17, from Shrewsbury, was one of four teenagers who died in a single-vehicle road traffic collision earlier this week. He tragically passed away following a planned camping trip in Snowdonia National Park with Jevon Hirst, 16, Wilf Fitchett, 17, and Hugo Morris.
However, after the group failed to respond to messages from parents last Sunday and did not return home on Monday, they were reported missing. The group’s Ford Fiesta was soon spotted on Tuesday near the village of Garegg on its roof.
Paying tribute to her son, Harvey’s mother said: “There are absolutely no words to describe the pain we are feeling at the loss of the most precious soul and no words to really explain how much of a special person Harvey was, but I will try my best.
“From the moment Harvey was born, he was special, a truly longed for baby who made me feel so complete and a much-wanted sibling for Yasmin. The bond between them was something every parent would dream of. “He idolised his big sister and spent his whole life looking up to her and copying everything she ever did down to his quirky, sometimes questionable fashion sense and even his feminist views.
Harvey grew up to be family orientated, he had two younger sisters, Sophia and Olivia who he absolutely adored and who idolised him, their big brother. He was never too old for a hug. “I know it sounds like a cliche, but Harvey was a unique and special person who touched so many people along the way.”
She added how Harvey was “cheeky” but also a “gentle soul” who never caused harm to anyone. She continued: “Laid back, charismatic, cheeky, a boy not of his time, he always thought outside the box, he was creative and funny. A boy that preferred to be outside and active.
Tributes left to the teenagers at Shrewsbury Abbey (Image: Jacob King/PA Wire)
“He was the most gentle soul, always feeling empathy for people and seeing the good in everyone.
Quirky, a trendsetter, loving, pure and hilarious, he was so dopey at times it was annoying but he was so lovable it was hard to stay mad at him for long! ” Talking about his hobbies and passions, she added: “He was always passionate about his latest craze, whether that be his pets, BMX, his skateboarding or more recently his passion for playing guitar, jazz music, poetry and art. He loved having jamming sessions with his little sisters, him playing his guitar and them dancing to his music.
“Lately he had developed a passion for working with bread and dreamed of one day having his own bread shop and cafe. Everyone has a funny story to tell about Harvey and its these stories that are keeping us going, making us laugh between the tears and will continue to live on. ” “There is never a time to lose a child but this feels so much more gut wrenching as he was literally thriving in life and had everything to live for.
Harvey was perfect when he came into the world and he will go out that way. “He never caused ill will, he did no harm, he wronged nobody, he was and will forever be a son we can be proud of. The fact that Harvey will always be 17 is unbearable to think of and even harder to accept.
“Please hold your loved ones tight, all the minor things we worry about are irrelevant, life is so short and can be so cruel.
I’ve lost my boy, the boy I absolutely adored, and I can’t accept that I won’t be able to hold him again or tell him I love him again.”
References
- ^ Heartbreaking tributes pour in after bodies of missing teens found in car in North Wales (www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk)
- ^ Police update after death of four teen boys in North Wales as underwater search team called in (www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk)